I suspect that those who apply the "selfish" label are those who love and cherish their kids and are probably better than average at raising them. Kids seem natural for them, like breathing.
What they don't realize is that some people are emotionally, intellectually or psychologically singularly unsuited for parenthood.
Yep, especially on FR, I'm sure there are lots of good parents.
What they don't realize is that some people are emotionally, intellectually or psychologically singularly unsuited for parenthood.
Yep again.
...And as a side note, speaking as a Christian, I also believe married Christians are not required and should not be expected to have children.