You don't know what kind of groups I'm referring to. I'm not talking about some sort of church group, or conservative couples. I never said being childless was a bad thing. I was referring to these little liberal coffee klatches where they all get together and pat themselves on the back for not having kids and being smarter than women who stay at home.
I think it's important to point out the "degrees" of childlessness. For instance, I know a couple who is not going to "try" to have children, but they don't like to call themselves "Childless by Choice" or whatever the women above are touting, because if they did happen to get pregnant, they would welcome "God's Little Surprise" and raise it whereas other "Childless by Choice" couples would go to ANY lengths--including abortion--to not have children.