We're damned if we do-we're damned if we don't!
We are called stingy for the response we made-If we had jumped in with more, we would have been accused of showboating.
Just once, we need to stand back and do nothing-just to see what the response to that would be.
see post #102 to see what the response would be (is). accusations of cold heartedness and lack of discernment from the slow and sanctimonious.