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Which is the more manly man, your opinion?

The guy who smacks his lips, wolf whistles, honks his horn and gesticulates each time a "piece of ass" walks by ... as if he's got no more self-control than a sunflower turning to the sun or a herd of cattle swinging their heads, en masse, toward the dinner bell.

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The guy who says nothing (but gets his point across anyway) and maybe even kisses you passionately but holds off until the time is right ... regardless how weak are your knees or trembling is your lip?

(I'll take No. 2, thanks.)

I realize the way things have been warped, it's now considered "manly" to gawk at Girls Gone Wild like fags at Oz on dance night or some Fire Island bash but it's Self-Control that is the truly manly and irresistible quality.

Personally, I find the whole porn scene quite gay. I realize that's a mindbender for most "redblooded males" but having been immersed in the gay culture as long as I have been, some things are patently obvious to me. It's like watching all the young boys from Flyover Country showing up to tour the Quarter with their parents wearing the hairstyles all the fashion queens were wearing five years ago. Same with chicks wearing nightie tops in public lately. That was old five years ago.

Bottom line ... I see nothing strong or powerful or particularly "manly" about a guy who's putty in the hands of any chick wearing a thong ... letting it all hang out (a la Rosa above) or going the more pedestrian route which is wearing cheap, unlined garmets through which everyone can inspect whatever tired underwear you've been sitting on all day long.

It strikes me as juvenile at best, and gay at worst. Face it, one reason homosexuals are so intent on overturning the "Don't Ask Don't Tell" policy is because indeed they are seeking respect for the fact they define themselves PRIMARILY by their aberrant sexuality.

Hetero men who do the same are kinda gay, IMHO, for that very reason. If you've got to broadcast it, chances are there's no point in tuning in at all.