[Campion]

If she has already shot you down most men that consider themselves gentlemen will back off and respect her opinion ... And I am not sure I want a woman that makes me jump through hoops.

Well, there's a time to back off, and there's a time to jump through hoops ... :-)

[TalonDJ]

Perhaps so. But I take great care to NOT fall head over heels for someone. I want some objectivity on the whole thing so I don't end up infatuated by the time I realize what a mistake I have made. So she says 'no' as a test then I am not going to over ride that because I have not driving reason to. I don't 'want her enough' to over ride that because I have taken care NOT to. I have thought this out because I have been in this situation.