Ungrateful? We are very grateful for kind, supportive, respectful men who see us as a friend and partner and don't see us as a cross between a maid, yard man, blow up doll and bank. In the way of their hanging out with their 'real buddies' and the girlfriend on the side. No surprise, we show them the door.
And when it comes to baggage---- take it from me....while women may have enough to fill a bass boat, most guys could sink the Titanic with their steamer trunks of "Susie, in 9th grade dumped me, and I have NEVER trusted a woman again!!!" Argh. Get over it already, you are 52!
Many are, some aren't, and more aren't now than ever before, at a time when there are more such men in America right now than in anyu other country, ever.
while women may have enough to fill a bass boat, most guys could sink the Titanic
Ah, see? You do blame American men.
Gotta earn it first.