That's all I'm saying, but some don't want to hear it.
We are hearing it, but you ain't a woman, and you have no idea just how bad the American Male can treat a female sweetie!;)
Been there, done that....won't do it again.
Bottom line, it takes effort to be married to an American woman. Why? Because we are worth it. Don't want to put forth the effort? Then by all means *opens door* go marry Bertha the Romanian Love Goddess.