Just doing my part.
Posted on 12/06/2004 9:12:18 AM PST by MississippiMasterpiece
Fair enough and I think it's perfectly obvious that there are plenty of women out there who are looking for an American husband mostly to escape their own wretched countries. Like western Europeans however I don't think the Japanese are ussually in that group.
I recently have, unfortunately, a low opinion of foreigners in general. Not just women. It stems from their opinion of Americans.
If you want fresh vegetables, go to a farmers market.
If you want good cuts of meat, go to a butcher.
If you want to meet good people.......
It's not, "working the church", it's putting yourself in a place where there are more people you MIGHT want to get to know better and, possibly, finding a mate in one of them.
What, you mean like this site? C'mon, I'm sure the guys who go here for women are just hardworking, fabulous men who despite all their charms and success can't attract an American woman because she's nothing but an ungrateful bitch.
Be sure not to miss the customized search by age, height, and weight. The "Sex Bomb" theme song is a nice touch, too.
Is it? How so? I would think that with the huge potpourri that is the English language, one could talk about nearly everything without making generalizations.
Can I get a "meow?"
I jotted down these post numbers and went back and read every one of them. Thank you!
Do you? You just made a generalization.
I don't usually get into these "war of the sexes" threads. I've been married 28 years to the same glorious woman, who is the light of my life. But I do want to clarify the way these back and forths seems to go as I read them.
The men here are responding to the "media woman," a created Hollywood/New York style uppity thing they are constantly bombarded with on television and at the movies. Only a complete slug would have an interest in this type of woman. They want it their way all the time, and want the men to be metrosexual girly-men, whom they can slap down with their cleverness, verbal assaults and wit.
The women here are responding to the men's lack of warmth and tolerance for this "media woman." I don't think we are describing anything but stereotyped versions of our own prejudices. Then people start piling on with insults built on every unsatisfactory episode in our lives that have involved the opposite sex. We have all met boors. That doesn't make evryone like that.
My sons both picked delightful girls and my daughters got a couple of winning young fellows after a couple of bumpy relationships. The trick was none of them were that hard to please. Yet everyone of them would now be considered a part of a handsome,attractive couple. My experience, based on my grown kids, is that the men are a bit harder to sift through for young women of quality. There are a lot of buzzards out there, a lot of liars and scoundrels, and women are drawn to bad boys for whatever reason when they are young.
There are also many fine young men who can't even get a look. My sons couldn't get a date in high school and early college because the girls had their sights set so high, either on looks or money. Both my boys are good, tall, average to handsome fellows and somewhat shy. It was mostly financial...the woman who loved them would not have it cushy at the beginning. Their ladies had to have careers for them to make it. I had the same problem during high school. I was middle class and running with the rich jocks because I had a good paying job. The girls ignored me. So me and my boys fell in love with the very first girl who took us as we were and loved us back, and so far we have all never needed to look again.
I do find it amusing that in "family" oriented TV, an old goat man with a bald head and a paunch always has a beautiful young wife. Television doesn't reflect reality any better in family programming than in the junk (my opinion) like "Friends" and "Sex in the City". But the stuff on those shows and the male inferiority portrayed there is the stereotype that makes many of us fellows blood boil.
As for the feminist man haters or Jennifer Anniston clones the men here are describing, that speaks for itself. Either side demanding too much of the other will be quite lonely. Many men see themselves as giving up a ton of power over the last forty years, and they are saying "enough" at least to being the whipping boys portrayed in these popular media shows. We are men, period. Ladies, love us for what we are and most of us will gladly reciprocate.
LOL.
It was the Food Lion story that did it for you, wasn't it? You can admit it.
However, your plan, "When all else fails, accuse them of jealousy". Pffftt... save it.
Please, not another, "say what you want, as long as it sounds like my opinion thread, is it"?
You misunderstand.... We are asking very specifically about you, because you are the one telling us that we are, as a class, inappreciative of you and ungrateful. I want to know what you brought with you to the table, besides some idea that women have it pretty good in this country. That isn't yours to give.
I appreciate and am grateful for my husband. But I don't overgeneralize, that would diminish him. He isn't the one on here berating American women, you are.
That was a small part of it. One thing to have the love fade, one thing to feel used and unappreciated, one thing to get your knickers in a twist over the usual marriage me/you stuff---those are things that healthy people with healthy minds can fix. But it is another thing to realize you have married someone mentally unstable, insanely manipulative and very dangerous. Evil isn't over the top here. That isn't 'fixable'.
I have a couple old cast iron skillets, they are more mine than my wife's, though she likes them too...for frying fish, nothing beats a well seasoned cast iron skillet.
No, I didn't. I offered an opinion based on knowledge (e.g., the English language has more words than any other) and reason.
Now please tell me why it is you can't discuss a cultural phenomenon without making generalizations.
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