My husband and I were talking about the "when its your time" thing last weekend when the plane crash happened in Colorado, and Dick Ebersol and his older son just walked away, they had just dropped of his wife, but their youngest died instantly. I just said, it is weird how things work when it isn't your time sometimes.
It's truly terrible. I was really dismayed to see her go on TV for an interview last week. I think it was with Russert. Even if she came across sympathetically (gee, ya think), she has no business giving TV the time of day at a time like this, imo.
But yeah. The younger son was killed and the older son blames himself for not being able to find him. Just horrifying.