I would take this a bit further to suggest that those who want a God (and His word) to condone homosexuality (e.g., I was born this way) have fashioned a new god for themselves. And the new god looks just like them. In essence, between the writers point above, and mine - we have the purest form of idolatry.
You've just articulated why their form of idolotry leads some lesbians to proclaim themselves to be 'goddesses.'
Good point.