There are tens of thousands of former homosexuals. You don't have to be "gay". You can change your attraction to the same sex - saving you from the loneliness of never having a husband and children and grandchildren. Homosexuality is not genetic, it is not inborn, and it is a psychological and spiritual disorder; and like other disorders, healing can be achieved.
It is cruelty to young people to tell them that they "are gay" and cannot change. That is what causes depression and so on.
Even Taoism, traditional Chinese medicine and Ayurveda as well as modern research shows that same sex acts cause physical, mental and emotional illness. It is imbalancing due to the lack of polarity, and all the methods employed to acheive gratification are unhygenic and unhealthy.
If you do research about the link between homosexuality and the abuse of young people here: [check out this link]:
http://www.freerepublic.com/focus/f-news/1026551/posts
Homosexual Agenda: Categorical Index of Links
You will see that there is a strong link between homosexuality and the molestation of children and young people, a much higher incidence rate than the general population.
The link above also has a list of many organizations which help homosexuals who want to overcome their same sex attraction.
The ball is in your court - you can remain wedded to your unhealthy and S.S.A.D. life, keep in the dark, or you can do the research, find the truth, and change. There are many organizations to help people heal from homosexuality. I urge you to look into some, and I wish you well in that effort.
A neighbor, who described Miklosovic's living arrangements with another woman and her son as "non-traditional," told the newspaper she hopes the teacher is judged "for what she has done, not who she is." link
Part of the homosexual agenda is to define "who" they are exactly and solely by "what they do," so it really is difficult to see the distinction.