You are the man, you hit the nail on the head. My wife and I are separating as I write this. I was real sad and upset several months ago when she mentioned she wanted a divorce but now i'm excited as hell. I've been cooped up with the same crazy woman for 17 years now. Can't wait to get out and start dating again. Notice I said 'dating'. I won't get married again without being extremely picky this time. I'm like a caged animal now getting out after 17 years.