afterall, there are homosexual men who are very bossy,dominant, hard-wired, etc....
then there are homosexuals who are very effeminate , and are more like gentle-minded women.....
and then there is the female side of homosexuality that is almost as complex.....
The same reason that there are a wide variety of personalities in any population. There are many areas that are involved and many different experiences in different lives.
Also, the female side of homosexuality seems to be more complex from what the research indicates.