Both of you are right re children being commodities in our "high tech reproduction" culture. This is why I'm also against things like artificial insem, surrogacy, etc. for straight couples too. But Jorge, what I was hearing in your replies was something along of the lines of "we have to make it fair for gays". Compounding the first problem (children considered trophies) by adding a second (gay adoptions) is sicker than sick, IMO.
I find gay adoption is sick as well.
And I'm not so sure I was advocating being "fair" to gays as much as I was pointing out that society has become so tolerant of degenerate heterosexual behavior, we've lost the moral high ground in this debate.