YOU DEAL WITH IT!
Just because Grant "won", doesn't mean a damn thing!
Lee was a better General. Ask anyone that went to West Point.
Seems he thought so --maybe until Gettysburg and Pickett.
Was Lee a great general or was it Stonewall Jackson who made him look great?
My understanding is that Pickett never forgave him for that suicidal charge at Gettysburg after the war.