My family struck her out of the family Bible because she was not only married to a Yankee but THE Yankee. :-D
Ha! I can imagine.....I can assure you that it took many years before I could come to terms and ADMIT I am related to him in any way. My Great-Grandma referred to the war as the "War of Northern Agression" :) She told me there was nothing "CIVIL" about it :)