You were defending the woman who got the IVF. She is deliberately depriving her children of a father. THAT is "horrific", not a woman who is planning to keep her babies and raise them in a stable home.
"Stable"? There is no guarantee that this couple will stay married now.After all,they obviously didn't turn a hair at divorcing before. And all of these aged baby machines are doing a disservice to their children;some more willfully than others.