[Hildy]

Ok, so it wasn't what he said that bothered you, it was how he said it, right?

[TXBubba]

Ok, so it wasn't what he said that bothered you, it was how he said it, right?

Can't speak for the other poster but my take is this. Not everyone wants kids (or can have them) and that is fine. I have an uncle that never married and never had kids (and isn't gay!). No problem. But neither does he go around writing articles about people who do and how bad it must be. I discovered after getting married that I knew nothing about marriage before I got married. I discovered after having kids that I knew nothing about raising kids before having them.

[MagnumRancid]

Not exactly, but close. I respect his choices for the reasons stated. What I did not appreciate was the writer's apparent lack of respect for those who made different choices.