Kids need a mom and a dad so don't forget that.. I'm sure you desevered to win custody because the judge would not have ruled it otherwise. Please make every effort to show your kids that you love them always and make every effort to not destroy the image of their mother no matter what she is. They can make up their own minds on that.
I agree!
Kid's need both parents but when one is constantly degrading the other it works havoc on a childs mind!
I never degraded their Mom in any way when they were with me.
Their Mom put her needs in front of theirs.
I hope that their Mom will see this as a wake up call and do what is best for the kid's and build a healthy relationship with them.
I have had support and prayers from many who knew what I was going through!
I never ever gave up on what was best for them and will never ever give up!
I did every thing I could to work it out to where we both would work for what was best for them but their Mom never complied but used the kid's as a way to get to me.