This was never a get even situation!
I had asked for me to have standard visitation and the court granted it but it was her that fought me out of revenge.
My X went through three lawyers.
I never meant to offend and please accept my apologies if you thought so......I was just offering you what I have always felt was the most important point "which are the kids"......too many of these divorces usually end up in fighting and ignore the kids who are in the middle. I blame the lawyers for a lot of it....after all, for many of them it's a business isn't it?
I have an Uncle who is a lawyer....his attitude about stuff like this bothers the hell out of me....then again he's the one who divorced his wife and screwed up his kids because of it....and he had the nerve to make fun of my father by very condescendingly calling him a "Victorian" man..........Personally, I think there was more jealousy in the turn of that phrase by my uncle then any other emotion. My father wore that phrase like a badge of honor!
God bless you and good luck to you and your children.