There is so much truth to what you say. Due to the humanistic culture we live in now, people spend far more attention on what affects us physically vs. what affects us spiritually and morally. However, my general comment on this lady is that if she's so addicted that she can't give up smoking around her kids as a means of protecting their health, then she needs counseling to find out why she's so selfish that her need to smoke overrules good thinking.
It was the fact that a judge would order sometyhing like that which is unfair. Suppose we substitute the internet, and FR for cigarettes in the judges order. I wonder how many on this forum think they could comply. Let's begin with you.