"Btw, the witch that has kept my granddaughters from me smokes."
How on earth can she demand that you not smoke in your home when she smokes herself? If it's ok for her to smoke around her kids, why isn't ok for you?
I don't know, but I had an arguement with my son about it. He was just trying to keep the peace. He came to visit me, but I still didn't see my granddaughters. That's ok, I enjoyed spending time with my son. I just want the government and the anti smokers to leave me alone.