I prefer to want to look like Mae West or Josephine Baker, or someone such like that. Girls who are naturally thin are a different case but most girls in America are starving themselves. If anyone wants to get an idea about how weight obsessed girls are, just hang out at a really a preppy high school or be in a dorm with preppy girls,etc. There are good books like Reviving Ophelia,Prozac Nation,etc. about this.