If you blame both females and males equally for a lack of sexual responsibilty, it would behoove you to articulate that more clearly than you have on most of this thread. That's all I'm trying to point out to you.
I hesitated to respond to your last post, but I will, cuz I'm miffed.
It would be much easier on you, and me, and I would guess all of us if you just assume that I am a person of good will (my 6+year track record here supports that, and the relative civility of this forum in general supports that), and not demand qualifiers or equal time for every person or group any of us doesn't criticize sufficiently in a post.
Just because I criticized the girl, I'm not obligated to give equal time criticism to guys, mothers, fathers, siblings, doctors, nurses, counselors, priests, teachers, or anyone else who could-have, should-have, or would-have been able to affect this girl's life for the better. That would take a book.