"Soft plush hands on a man (lazy) grosses me out."
"Ahh, you've never known the love of a baker. Too bad for you."
Oh yeah how could I forget, the other thing that grosses me out is a man who is endlessly conceited and flatters himself foolishly. Major yuck factor. (smirk)
The donut part I get, but what about bread, or are you Atkinsing? My point was you don't have to be a lazy man to have soft hands. What about chefs, chemists, doctors, engineers, architects, designers, etc? Not all manly men have calluses.