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End Government Recognition of Marriage
16 July 2004 | Me

Posted on 07/16/2004 8:09:37 AM PDT by Voice in your head

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To: longtermmemmory
"At the start of this nation, marriage was only recorded in a non-uniform means. church records were not reliable and inconsistent. Additionally people went to the courts to disolve a marriage with only a church record to prove a marriage.

Thus the governement has to have the central role of record keeper."

If we make a distinction between "marriage" and "legal contracts" then we do not need government to annull a marriage. If we let churches handle the marriages, then records are of little to no importance.

"Laws such as inheritance, incompetency, medical surrogacy are all dependent on a consitent and uniform rule of marriage."

I wrote that "[e]ach couple should have its own contract for its specific circumstances. Some couples already do this via pre-nuptial agreements." I wrote this to address the point that you raise. The purpose of the contract is to legally "form a union for the purpose of shared benefits and legal protections" such as those you cited.

"Additionally as a society we reward the insitution not the individual."

I'm a fan of limited government, rather than a state that engages in social engineering, no matter how well intentioned.

121 posted on 07/16/2004 7:00:02 PM PDT by Voice in your head ("The secret of Happiness is Freedom, and the secret of Freedom, Courage." - Thucydides)
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To: Voice in your head
So the gist of your argument is, leave it up to the individual religions to decide who they will or will not marry.

I have infinitely greater trust in the ability of religious institutions to make moral and ethical decisions than I do in the government.

Do you? What about Gene Robinson, the gay Bishop in the Episcopalian church? What about the pedophile-shuffling within the Catholic church? Pedo-priest commits a sexual crime - he is shuffled off to a different parish. These are the first two that come to mind. I'm sure we can add to the list of "moral and ethical decisions".

122 posted on 07/16/2004 7:03:53 PM PDT by my_pointy_head_is_sharp
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To: Voice in your head

agree mostly


123 posted on 07/16/2004 7:05:31 PM PDT by Triple (All forms of socialism deny individuals the right to the fruits of their labor)
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To: Voice in your head
Your argument would only work if religious institutions were the paragons of moral and ethical virtues that they should be, but, sadly, are not.
124 posted on 07/16/2004 7:07:36 PM PDT by my_pointy_head_is_sharp
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To: asmith92008
"Children that grow up with two parents have less social pathologies. That has been a fact known since the early 70's. If you have a problem with statistics, then your anecdotal tale is worse than worthless in policy discussions."

The first sentence does not answer my question, nor does it contradict my point. So, I don't understand your frustration. What we wrote is in agreement, but you apparently misread what I wrote.

"And while courts are part of the government, they are not the entire government. So if the other branches, executive and legislative, would get off their duffs and do their jobs to rein in there out of control colleagues, we would not have a problem."

So are you retracting your earlier assertion? "we can trust the government to uphold that standard because no people has ever voted for homosexual marriage."

"Because government's job is to protect our people and out cultural institutions."

I disagree. Government's purpose is to serve as a body in which we vest our rights to self defense from force, fraud or coercion and we vest our rights to determine rules regarding use of public property.

125 posted on 07/16/2004 7:08:13 PM PDT by Voice in your head ("The secret of Happiness is Freedom, and the secret of Freedom, Courage." - Thucydides)
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To: my_pointy_head_is_sharp
"So the gist of your argument is, leave it up to the individual religions to decide who they will or will not marry."

That is half of it, yes.

I have infinitely greater trust in the ability of religious institutions to make moral and ethical decisions than I do in the government.
"Do you?"

Yes.

"What about Gene Robinson, the gay Bishop in the Episcopalian church? What about the pedophile-shuffling within the Catholic church? Pedo-priest commits a sexual crime - he is shuffled off to a different parish. These are the first two that come to mind. I'm sure we can add to the list of "moral and ethical decisions".

We can "what-if" this issue to death on both sides. Bill Klinton, Gary Hart, Barney Frank, Gary Condit. Do you think that fewer scum inhabit Washington DC and our state capitals than inhabit our churches and synagogues? I have greater faith in the religious institutions to handle marriage.

"Your argument would only work if religious institutions were the paragons of moral and ethical virtues that they should be, but, sadly, are not."

I disagree. So long as the vast majority are moral and ethical, then it works.

126 posted on 07/16/2004 7:18:54 PM PDT by Voice in your head ("The secret of Happiness is Freedom, and the secret of Freedom, Courage." - Thucydides)
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To: Voice in your head
1. The question is not simply two parents but a mother and father. You can't just take two individuals and call them parents. A mother and father offer different, and complementing, features to raising a child.

2. Government can be the best protector of marriage. All it it takes is the people exerting their will on the elected branches to rein in the judiciary.

3. A nation is not simply an economic entity. The government does more than simply enforce contracts and control public property. If the government allows the culture to dissolve, we will become isolated islands of atomistic hedonism. That way leads to the death of our nation.
127 posted on 07/16/2004 7:28:49 PM PDT by asmith92008 (If we buy into the nonsense that we always have to vote for RINOs, we'll just end up taking the horn)
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To: Voice in your head

You are refereing to cohabitation agreements which already exist. You can just educate people to enter into those "mere contracts" rather than getting married.

As an institution rather than just a contract Marriage is afforded certain priorities that are not available in mere contracts.

For example, despite what a will has, many states have mandatory widow's/widower's shares.

For example, child supoprt would be fixed under a mere contract concept rather than as the cost of living adjusted system now.

Those the want only contracts have been free to do so for decades. cohabitation contracts are readily available from various form companies.

However as a institution marriage as a means of producing and raising children is paramount to the continuation of a society. This is not to be left to the haphazard contracts any more than one would want to privatize the US navy to france.


128 posted on 07/16/2004 7:48:57 PM PDT by longtermmemmory (VOTE!)
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To: asmith92008

Have you notice how the PC police no longer say "mother" or "father" only "parent"

This is to newter the genders in order to make it two whatevers. I would like to see the next course after FMA to be making homosexual adoptions illegal. A child should have one mother and one father. A homosexual recreational sex partner does not equal a mother/father.


129 posted on 07/16/2004 7:58:03 PM PDT by longtermmemmory (VOTE!)
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To: longtermmemmory
We're witnessing the destruction of our society. I think this is a good example of why we cannot truly consider libertarians allies of conservatism. They take the worst instincts of both parties; the greed that can sometimes be seen in the Wall Street wing of the Republican party and the unrestrained hedonism of the Democratic Party. It's time for conservatives to start educating the nation in conservative values again.
130 posted on 07/16/2004 8:26:11 PM PDT by asmith92008 (If we buy into the nonsense that we always have to vote for RINOs, we'll just end up taking the horn)
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To: asmith92008

We better start soon because the courts have become a Kafka-esque joke.

(this is from a lawyer)


131 posted on 07/16/2004 8:31:27 PM PDT by longtermmemmory (VOTE!)
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To: longtermmemmory
I'm sitting for the bar out here California on the 27th. You wouldn't happen to know anyone who's hiring, would you?
132 posted on 07/16/2004 8:33:51 PM PDT by asmith92008 (If we buy into the nonsense that we always have to vote for RINOs, we'll just end up taking the horn)
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To: Voice in your head
Question: Do you think that animal cruelty should be a criminal act? I'm not talking about for food or medical research, but just kicking your dog because you feel like kicking your dog.
133 posted on 07/16/2004 8:52:53 PM PDT by asmith92008 (If we buy into the nonsense that we always have to vote for RINOs, we'll just end up taking the horn)
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To: asmith92008
I agree with all three of your comments. I would add to #2 that although government can be the best protector of marriage, it is not. And, I see it as neither essential nor preferable that it play this role, rather than the church. To #3 I would add that I do not think that allowing churches to honcho marriage issues will allow the culture to dissolve.
134 posted on 07/16/2004 9:01:32 PM PDT by Voice in your head ("The secret of Happiness is Freedom, and the secret of Freedom, Courage." - Thucydides)
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To: Voice in your head
What about my question on the animal cruelty laws?
135 posted on 07/16/2004 9:09:00 PM PDT by asmith92008 (If we buy into the nonsense that we always have to vote for RINOs, we'll just end up taking the horn)
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To: Voice in your head
I was asking how the government has protected marriage, not why it should.

I was trying to explain to you that "government" as it was orginally defined did not mean the state. The word government meant self-government of the Christian man, and it it very closely and almost inseparably linked with this, government meant the family. Every family is a government. Every church is a government. Every school is a government, and yes every the state is a "form" of government, but it was orginally defined as civil government. It's purpose is to pass laws that restrain man in a system of morality. If it does not do this it is only because we have been subverted. This can only happen when the "ministers of justice" are spiritually and morally delinquent. In order to have "free" civil government you are going to have to have free men whose greatest desire is self-government under God.

Redefining marriage is not an issue that I raised.

Sure it is...you want to take the institution of marriage away from the state so that they don't define it. What you are saying is that you want to seperate from civil government, but in essence you would be telling civil government that you no longer wish to have "self-government" and then they win (politicians). They could impose their rule over us. On the flip-side of this what will really happen is that sodomites will create their own churches to define it any way they see fit.

136 posted on 07/16/2004 9:31:18 PM PDT by I got the rope
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To: asmith92008

"Homosexuality and obscenity were illegal at America's founding."

Yeah, and slavery was legal, blacks were 4/5ths of a person, and women couldn't vote. Things and times change.


"The Fonders recognized that it had to be a nation of moral people in order for the Republic to work."


If that's true, we're in big trouble, as morality is impossible to force or enforce. Stopping gay marriage will not stop immorality.


137 posted on 07/16/2004 11:10:05 PM PDT by Blzbba (Hillary Clinton - Dawn of a New Error.)
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To: longtermmemmory
"As an institution rather than just a contract Marriage is afforded certain priorities that are not available in mere contracts."

If the government no longer defines marriage, then does it not follow that mandatory widow/widower laws and the like will be void and thus able to be replaced by contract?

138 posted on 07/17/2004 8:13:42 AM PDT by Voice in your head ("The secret of Happiness is Freedom, and the secret of Freedom, Courage." - Thucydides)
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To: asmith92008
"Question: Do you think that animal cruelty should be a criminal act? I'm not talking about for food or medical research, but just kicking your dog because you feel like kicking your dog."

On public property, it would prefer that it be illegal.

"What about my question on the animal cruelty laws?"

I do need to occasionally pull myself away from the computer and get some sleep.

139 posted on 07/17/2004 8:16:34 AM PDT by Voice in your head ("The secret of Happiness is Freedom, and the secret of Freedom, Courage." - Thucydides)
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To: I got the rope
"I was trying to explain to you that "government" as it was orginally defined did not mean the state."

Throughout this thread, "government" has referred to the state. Thus, when I asked how government has protected marriage, I was asking how the state has protected marriage. Sorry for the confusion.

"you want to take the institution of marriage away from the state so that they don't define it. What you are saying is that you want to seperate from civil government, but in essence you would be telling civil government that you no longer wish to have 'self-government' and then they win (politicians). They could impose their rule over us."

I do not understand your point. If the state no longer defines marriage, then it can impose upon us its rules regarding marriage?

140 posted on 07/17/2004 8:21:48 AM PDT by Voice in your head ("The secret of Happiness is Freedom, and the secret of Freedom, Courage." - Thucydides)
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