I've seen 4000 of the 8000 (7018 named, approximately 1000 more unnamed) with my own eyes. Which you know. The mass graves where the remainder are buried are well known and are being escavated as room opens up at the ICMP morgue in Tuzla.
The only myth is that it's a myth. I've seen them myself. And so long as I breathe and can type, I'll speak the truth. Spin away, dervish, it changes nothing.
Post up the pictures..name the dead. I will look them up when I am in Banja Luka and Tuzla next month. I'm sure they will be floating around Frankfurt, NYC or Jamestown, NY when I would do a database search.