Going over to Europe and engaging in an 'excursion' above and beyond something that might not fit into YOUR lifestyle choice...well, that sounds a bit stifling on your part. Perhaps YOUR sexual preferences might not be as challenging as other people's? Europeans have a lifestyle that is a lot more open than ours is...well, open....in that it is more accepted...and, who are you to judge what is considered perverted...between consentual, MARRIED adults? Did the Ryans come back to the US and try to promote a lifestyle that would allow consentual adults to engage in private matters of a sexual nature...beyond the norm of a 'couple'?
Perhaps what he did with his wife...or attempted to do..was not an embarrassment to him.
Please...understand that sex is sex....and we all have our own preferences....the whole thing boils down to privacy....unfortunately, that is lost in the salaciousness of this story.
Republicans enjoy sex as much as any Democrat. Please, don't forget that. ;)