"Nowadays we're see genuine gays, and we're supposed to respect and LOVE that sequined dress on you! "
Who says we're 'supposed to'? I either turn the channel, don't see the movie, or simply laugh at them. Don't let 'them' (?) tell you what you can and cannot laugh AT.
But wouldn't it be nice to have a truly nice movie for a change? Something that isn't going to offend any1, and that you don't have to worry about kids accidentally seeing?
That's esp. why I'm an old-movie fan. They don't offend me. (Unless they're just plain bad!) I wouldn't be afraid of my nieces or nephews turning them on or walking in on them.