thanks for posts 67 and 68 on ron reagan. I mostly agree with you. It still does not mean that Ron was not very effective and ....funny, the lind of funny relief at a funeral that goes to the edge, provides needed relief and.....is OK. The ear-lobe story was definitely not OK, it was slanted to try to appear homoerotic or at least hint at it. This was a terrible to deliberately do to your father at his grave.
You have a very bizarre mind that made that connection. Trust me, healthy minds did not see that.