That's why they're called lenders, not Givers.
I thank God that I had good friends and family to give me terrific advice when buying my house. My agent tried to get me to max out my allowable income on a home, but I said no way, and found a houses I loved and was far below what I was told I could afford.
Of course, I have very little sympathy for anyone who doesn't know they must pay property taxes when they own a home. There is a lot of blame to pass around here...