Oh, so now you agree that it was consensual hooking up and they weren't comatose on the sofa?
I'm not making excuses. I said it was wrong and stupid to lie. But that doesn't make this rape, it just makes it sex that was later regretted. If they hadn't been so casual about hooking up the chances of anything like this happening would be zero.
If the men knew that they were having sex with a man why bother to send a woman in to find out for sure?
I suppose you do not believe that any crime has been committed when someone videos (without permission) himself having sex with a woman (maybe even a one night stand).