The problem, as I see it, is not that she is being punished, but being punished for having "broken" the rule for three weeks before these gestapo "discovered" that she had been out of her assigned seat. As a lawyer, this is not three times. It's either 21 times (three weeks out of her seat) or 1 time (you just got caught "breaking the rule")
I mean, these are TRULY IRS TACTICS:
WHAT? YOU HAVEN"T PAID TAXES THIS YEAR? OR THE PAST THREE YEARS?
Ignore the fact that they missed this for three weeks, though it's their job to make sure the little kiddies obey.
>>Ignore the fact that they missed this for three weeks, though it's their job to make sure the little kiddies obey.
In my daughter's school, there were two warnings in writing and then a punishment. She wasn't ignored, she was given due process.