"But I would question where the heck the control is at these 'Disney apartments' used to house employees.
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What control? Are they adults, these employees? Sorry, but even college dorms don't do all that much, never mind apartment buildings that are student-occupied.
Should Disney be in the business of telling their employees what sexual activities they can indulge in when not on the job?
I would presume for the most part they are. Nevertheless, this is Disney owned property. One would think a company the size of Disney would be well aware of the liability of letting stuff like this go on.
"Should Disney be in the business of telling their employees what sexual activities they can indulge in when not on the job?"
Disney certainly has a right to restrict such things on their own property, particularly if they have made certain promises to someone before hiring them.
Yes, if that's what they say what they will do when they're making promises to prospective employees over the phone.
Either enforce the rules they claim to enforce, or drop the pretense all together and tell prospective employees that they will be living 24 by 7 in a mosh pit / Free Love Zone.