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Good point, and worth repeating...

[Quix]

THANKS SOOOOO ENORMOUSLY for saying so.

BTW, why

is that simple--to me--obvious fact--so hard

for so many to even admit??

Why isn't it more obvious more people? N

And no fair saying I'm the shrink and you don't know. Please guess, for me.

Baffling--unless it's the chronic denial/head-in-the-sand-defense against fear, anxiety, trauma etc.

Sigh.