Let me see if I can guess what you are...Give it your best shot...
There are decent people of every stripe. If you are conservative and your child identifies as liberal, do they become "indecent"? Decency is based on your actions, not on whose name you check on a ballot box. If you can't see that, you are living in a dream world.
Time for confessions...I was liberal when I was young. I had alot of hate as a result of a pretty dysfunctional family life and was prey to being brainwashed in college. I didn't realize I hated America, but I did! I was not a decent person. I was a confused and easily manipulated person. I thought I was 'different'!! LOL!