[Tuxedo]

What I don't get at all, is how meticulous he was at gaining trust from Freepers. Do a Poster search on him and the threads he has contributed to and his posts do not even remotely suggest this fraud was being perpetrated on us. I guess after looking at his posts etc, I have to wonder if he really is a fraud. or there is something more sinister going on here... like an ID theft, hack attack, or something along those lines. It does not add up at all. I guess if a parent has their first kid and they have a fever, some could easily freak out. I am an experienced parent and know a little ibuprofen or acetominophen knocks it right down in half an hour. But the very first time my daughter got a fever, I did phone the family doc. I didn't though jump on FR and ask for prayers...

So, you have to wonder about this. This guy went through months and months to get in our good graces and essentially become one of us. I don't know how many Poles you know, but I can say that many are very much like this guy and many love America and what it stands for. So, then all of a sudden, he drops on us this tragic story. And it cannot be confirmed. Are all DWI accidents with fatalities reported? Where did it occir? His reply at the head of this thread seemed like a guy who couldn't believe people would question him at a time of great grief. The evidence points to fraud, but I think there is more to this.

[cyborg]

very very very deluded people... it's just like the terrorists who were RIGHT here in this country going about their business quietly. Who knows? The flight school owner said they were the nicest people,etc.

[cyborg]

Yes you can confirm it. Drunk driving accidents are reported on the news. It's very easy to find out a day or two after. I haven't found ANYTHING and I think he is a fraud.

[nopardons]

I guess you missed DEEP IN THE HUNTINGTON FOREST and CLASSYGREENEYEDBLONDE and oh so many other frauds and liars.:-)

Getting into FREEPERS' good graces is all part of the MO.They ALL use emotions,of varying degrees,and then lower the boom,or get caught.

You called the doctor,when you kid had 102? Weren't you ever sick as a child?Most of us know how to handle our child/children's illnesses,because we remember what it was like,when we were sick as kids.And,should you still have children at home,a luke warm sponge bath will also lower a high temperature,as will bundling the sick person up in pajamas,robe,and every blanket and comforter in the house,so that they can sweat it out.

The poster in question,was supposedly living in New Jersey. Yes,vehicular homicides ARE all not only reported,but make at least the local newspaper.Ones involving a drunk driver,who has left the scene of the crime,and one of the murdered women has both of her arms torn off,to boot,usually makes the N.Y. Post. It didn't!

Identity theft? I doubt it.