[justanotherday]

"Partners make good marriages. Ruling, I just don't cotton to that. Altho as far as I am concerned, yall can rule the world and run the government as long as I get to decide what kind of mortgage we get, what kind of car I drive, where we bank and who pays the bills."

Thanks for the response. But if my wife did all the things you did, she'd be wearing my balls. Decisions like these are made jointly. As it should be. FYI: 32 years of marriage.

[cajungirl]

Well, I have been married 39 years and believe it or not, my husband hates to pay bills, would rather have surgery than go with me to buy my car, likes that I pick out his cars and tend to investments. He works much longer hours than I do and in his spare time likes to read, play on his computer, ski and dive. I think we evolved to an acceptable division of labor without any rancor. And he doesn't seem to be any less masculine for it nor do I seem any less feminine for it. You married the rightr person as did I it would seem.