[FITZ]

My parents never supported me in college. I made my own way and I am an adult free to go where I want when I want. I keep in touch with them because I want to, not because of some obligation.

My parents let me know they didn't really care if I went to college ---- I just had to find something to do to support myself --- any kind of job as long as it was moral and ethical. I went but it was for myself ---- I think one of the best things you can do for your kids is to never push them (encourage yes but no pressure) but accept whatever their ability level and job desires they have.

[CSM]

Sounds like we had the same parents ;-)....

Mine couldn't figure out why I wanted to go to college, they had survived without it. Then they were mad when I joined the Army. Oh, well. My degree is of a very high value to me and I have the satisfaction to know that I earned it.......

I agree. If I ever have children, I will allow them to develop in the areas they desire and have a chance for success. Of course, that will not mean a lack of discipline!