The press wants this to be about homosexuality. However what blew the Prof's cork was the student's comments that he made his own way and earned his own money.
See, the day's lecture was on how white males has priviledge and power while keeping minorities down. (This is what they are paying tuition dollars for). The kid took exception, gave examples of his wealth, and she went nutz.
However, the student should be dinged, for even going to a useless class such as hers; and find something else to fill his academic requirements. My daughter is a UNC grad, and managed to avoid these classes. She actually registered for one, went to class 1st time and read the opening line of the sylibus: "God is a women and she is pi**ed" DShe rolled her eyes, left, and withdrew.
Was the topic of homosexuality discussed in any way, and if it was, what exactly did the student say about homosexuality? Was there any justification whatsoever for the instructor to characterize his remarks as "violent," as she did in the first email?
This is a crucial point. If the student said anything that can remotely be interpreted as "violent," his standing is diminished. But if the instructor was the first one to talk about "violence, threats and intimidation," her own remarks qualify as "hate speech" more readily than his do.