Of course, your wife could decide to leave you for someone more exciting and more wealthy, and you will probably still lose your children. Is that God's judgment against you, too? I have no idea. I'll not speak for the Almighty on every specific scenario, and that was not the point of my last post. Possibly you have been through some very difficult times. In any case, my whole point was that we needn't look for a divine meteor shower or a flood to understand that God's way is the best way, and deviating from it is not. God bless.
I have not been through anything bad myself, but I practiced law enough and have lived long enough to distrust the legal system. I am sure that many men have lost their children through no fault of their own.