The selfishness of some people never ceases to amaze me. And I have to assume that it is the left that support PBA for a "cleft palate" or other issues since they push the right to have them so vehemently.
I think of my son having psoriasis. Every day is a battle with keeping his skin healthy. But I would never, ever dream of not having him in my life every single day. And some day (when he is old enough), he is going to make some lucky young woman a very good husband (I am training him, hehe).
Your son will be your biggest blessing in life. I firmly believe that those of us who are given "less than perfect" children are taught the value of life and are granted blessings with our children far beyond what we could have imagined.
When I have had lapses in faith, my daughter has been there to encourage me. She has set an example for all who know her.
God bless your son and your family. You will see that his burden turns out to be a blessing both for him and for all of you.