Luckily, there's makeup and wardrobe.
VMort is particularly rattling between the difference of what he is and what he portrays. If you've ever seen him in natural interview, he simpers , speaks in a hushed girly voice and flaps his wrists around. I know he's married, and Euro men seem to have a lot of these swishy affectations...goes to show that however silly the twerp is, he can act.
It's really best to ignore actors completely--although the media seems bent on pushing their private lives and hairbrained opinions on us.
Which I've never been able to figure out: why are there so many people that care about the private lives and opinions of actors, etc., that numerous magazines and TV shows can be supported off of it?