[DaughterOfAnIwoJimaVet]

Thank you, Chad - I appreciate that. It was Dane's quote in your post that I was commenting on - and when you referred to his post as "the truth", that got my attention.

[Chad Fairbanks]

And, perhaps in this case it was the truth. Not in the case of your brother, however, and probably countless others as well - but in many, it is the truth.

No offense intended :0)