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I had a serious relationship with an "alpha male" who kept his affinity for 13-year-girls hidden from me. LOL, no wonder he was so insistent on my weight... Like you, I went to my best friend who definitely isn't an "alpha male"... he isn't the life of the party--in fact, he plays D&D... but he is sweet, gentle, nice, and I have zero doubt he will cheat on me. This alpha male thing is part of everyone's inherent attraction to sinful activities. Women, sadly, don't learn that males who give them the most thrill are also the males who will burn them the most.

My roommate met a very handsome guy, this guy invited her on an all-expenses-paid air & hotel trip to New York two day after they met. When she returned, she told me of the whole deal and was furious he only wanted sex. I was speechless at her stupidity and naivete (although she had extensive... experience).

he isn't the life of the party--in fact, he plays D&D...

And what's wrong with playing D&D?

But I think I can explain why people who still play D&D are not party people with this quote from a someone I knew in college: "We used to play D&D until we discovered beer." I'd also advise conservative women stay away from leftist gamers. They can get pretty darned strange.