[supercat]

My husband and I have decided not to do this. We trust each other to make decisions and would do so with parent(s) support.

It may still be wise to draw up and file advance directives for what should be done in the event both of you are incapacitated, with the proviso that if one of you is competant that person's judgement should be trusted over the defaults prescribed in the advance directive.

[CindyDawg]

Uh Huh. We have been thinking about that.