Sounds like you really have control of things there. It's best not to play into their cluthes. Love is a game that you don't play to win but to survive; especially when it comes down to money. I have an aunt that preys on old Jewish men with money. In a previous marriage, she married one with two children and had one kid with him. When he died, he left all his children an inheritance but she squandered it all on vacations. Now these kids are grown up, having to work to pay for their college when they should never have had to in the first place. She did it intentionally to "humble" the children. Since that time, she has suffered breast cancer and the tumors keep recurring. I think it is God's way of teaching her a lesson about dishonesty in the marriage and theft cause what she did was steal money from the children. The oldest child who is in the Navy hates her guts to this day and I can see why. Now, she's preying on my dad while still married to a jewish man. Isn't that just vile? On top of that she always refers to me as her "favorite" niece. Well, I've already put my dad on notice about her game plans.