Misogyny and misandry were invented sometime shortly after Adam and Eve bit the big one, probably as a direct result of their culinary errors. Currently, misandry is quite popular amongst the distaff "knuckle draggers". Check out the offerings in a greeting-card store. Or the Lifetime Movie Network. It ain't purty, and it's getting worse. But it will also pass; societal stupidity is always changing.
I consider physical violence and verbal cruelty unacceptable methods of settling interpersonal disputes for either sex. I don't think that's a particularly "modern" idea.