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I'm just saying they're all busy right now. It takes time and space to deal with stuff like that. Find a FReeper in the area who can coordinate it.

I imagine that this whole thing has been VERY expensive for the family in terms of lost wages, travel, lodging, food, other expenses. If you want to send something to help, why not send money? I hate to say this but you can't pay car insurance premiums with a teddy bear, and they family probably has some very staggering bills piled up on them. More than that, I bet there is ALREADY a fund set up.

The family is very capable of getting flowers and things for her to help her know how much she's loved. Right now I doubt she's in any condition to care. Ever been post-op? I have. She's probably not even that well.