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To: WhiteGuy
I thought the title was "Let's Bump Off..."

And I was getting ready to (reluctantly, with great sadness) flag it as abuse!

I just discussed with my husband how we all need living wills so that we will never put our loved ones at one another's throats like this, trying to read our minds. This could happen even when everyone involved is truly interested in the very best for the comatose person.
15 posted on 10/15/2003 4:26:30 PM PDT by ChemistCat (Bought the cats a new scratching-couch. It looks great so far.)
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To: ChemistCat
I just discussed with my husband how we all need living wills so that we will never put our loved ones at one another's throats like this, trying to read our minds. This could happen even when everyone involved is truly interested in the very best for the comatose person.

We have them. In Wisconsin, they're called "durable power of attorney for health care."

I got into a huge fight with one of my sisters who me she was going to be the one to make the decision concerning my father, that it'd be her decision "to pull the plug." I told her that if she even thought about it, especially because he was competent enough to make his own decisions at the time she told me--and continued to be competent until he died--that if she tried to pull anything like that, I would sue the living crap out of her. It was very divisive in the family.

I had no opinion on whether to use extraordinary measures or not to use extraordinary measures. It was my father's life and it was his choice, and I'd support the decision he made. Ultimately, he decided on no extraordinary measures and died in his own bed, like he wanted.

26 posted on 10/15/2003 4:50:13 PM PDT by Catspaw
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